Over the past one year my life had changed drastically. I am a totally different person now. A year back if you ask how many times I log into facebook in a week, I would say
once in 2 weeks or so. I had a life. I went out and met friends, spent a good
time with them talking nonsense, yes absolute nonsense. When I am at home I
would be busy pulling my mom’s leg with my dad and having so much fun watching
TV together. I had read almost 2 books in a week which is huge to me given the
fact I work in second shifts. But last year, I got introduced to being on chats
for a long time, only then this misery happened. I got totally addicted to the
internet. I would be on facebook for a long time just scrolling up and down
reading nothing or anything. Thankfully I find stalking people stupid so I don’t
do that. But I will keep refreshing the page and will be waiting for a new post
to appear. What added up to this was whatsapp and my new smart phone. These
phones are smart enough to suck the life out of you. You stay glued to the
phone for nothing. I mean nobody would be chatting with you, you would still
keep checking the last seen time of a person on whatsapp or again log into
facebook through mobile phone and check for updates every 2 minutes. Now this
is heights of joblessness or addiction!
In a way I am really
jealous of the celebrities because they have a life, seriously they keep
themselves so busy that they don’t have much time for all this (Although there
is a lot posting nonsense on twitter all the time) but apart from that they
have a very busy schedule, so
yesterday I decided that I will deactivate my account for few days and live
without that social networking site. It was the right time for me because I
fought with my best friend and he is totally irritated with me so I thought this
is the right time and let me pull a stunt. I posted a status that I am going to
deactivate my account and that I will be back in few days. I did not log in for
the rest of the day. This morning I woke and had a message from one of my
friends, “You idiot, If you deactivate your account the facebook page of your
blogs will also be unpublished” I immediately activated my account because I
cannot stop writing for any reason. It gave a meaning to my life. I write all
the time and I publish all the crap I write. It helped me get friends including
the one who is enormously irritated with me now. It helped me find a grip to
live my life and it helped me get out of my depressing life. So I activated my
account now and writing this blogpost. From today, I decided that I will
indulge myself in a lot of writing and books. I am planning to sell off my
smart phone or at least not use it for sometime. It has only made my life more
complicated than easy.
I am going to get a life for myself, out of facebook and
whatsapp. Most importantly out of my smart phone. I am going to start quilling
again and all the things I left a year back.
Oh my GOD! you wouldnt believe it, I wrote a rant about Fb ruining my life just yesterday!! Some telepathy huh Gayathri! :D I was so happy to see this. And hi fi for the resolution to get a life. I hope we both succeed :) And writing and books, thats a great mantra!!
ReplyDeleteHaha I actually read your blog after posting this one and I was like WHATT!! :D Maybe we are suffering from the same disease! :D Yea good luck with it! We will definitely succeed! :)Oh yea, books and writing can we have better things in life? No way!!
DeleteIf you do it because you are bored of it, it may stick, but if you are doing it for the sake of someone (or to get back at someone), it will never stick :) .. It is like people giving up cigarettes or non-veg to impress someone and they indulge when they are frustrated with the other person!!
ReplyDeleteI read parts of another post, where you sounded a little sad (I don't remember which one) and once again concluded that you are an extrovert Gayathri. Addiction to FB is your substitute for meeting people in person. Don't deny your identity to yourself (I am on my advice-aunt mode again!). Why should you stop doing something you like just because you are angry with another person? Who benefits from it?
That's so true Rathi! I totally agree :) And I am on changing myself mode already! :) Thanks for the timely advice!!!
DeleteFacebook ruined my life too!! Oh my God! It is sweet drug! I too activated back my facebook just for the sake of pages. Wish there's a way to admin facebook page without activating account
ReplyDeletelol true! I think we should learn to control ourselves :(
DeleteFB and Google Android phone both are affecting me too .
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lol Vishal! :D Good luck with the coping
DeleteFB is really killer for evrybody life..Sometimes I feel tht I wnt my life to be revived the classical era of 90's where FB was not yet born and the samrtphones which are simple. We are ruining our life with no reason and sense. I hope your resolution goes true and fulfilled an gud tht u started the resolution before the earth day...(22/04/2013)..:) :)
ReplyDeleteWell written thoughts....
So true Vajra! Thank you :)
DeleteHa ha.. What a coincidence! Seriously.. Here is my story
ReplyDelete1. I am / was a facebook & Whatsapp addict
2. I did have a sort of fight with my close friend
3. I did dramatically quit them and his contact :)
4. Then I wondered how I would share my post in social network, (then decided readers would be here, if they want to)
5. My close friend who irritated the crap out of me, came home (yeah in real life, not virtual visit) and we did dine out :)
6. Still not going to activate Whatsapp and FB.